nvme-rdma: fix potential unbalanced freeze & unfreeze

nvme-rdma: fix potential unbalanced freeze & unfreeze

Move start_freeze into nvme_rdma_configure_io_queues(), and there is
at least two benefits:

1) fix unbalanced freeze and unfreeze, since re-connection work may
fail or be broken by removal

2) IO during error recovery can be failfast quickly because nvme fabrics
unquiesces queues after teardown.

One side-effect is that !mpath request may timeout during connecting
because of queue topo change, but that looks not one big deal:

1) same problem exists with current code base

2) compared with !mpath, mpath use case is dominant

Fixes: 9f98772ba307 ("nvme-rdma: fix controller reset hang during traffic")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Yi Zhang <yi.zhang@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>