fs: get rid of __FMODE_NONOTIFY kludge

fs: get rid of __FMODE_NONOTIFY kludge

All it takes to get rid of the __FMODE_NONOTIFY kludge is switching
fanotify from anon_inode_getfd() to anon_inode_getfile_fmode() and adding
a dentry_open_nonotify() helper to be used by fanotify on the other path.
That's it - no more weird shit in OPEN_FMODE(), etc.

Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-fsdevel/20241113043003.GH3387508@ZenIV/
Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/d1231137e7b661a382459e79a764259509a4115d.1731684329.git.josef@toxicpanda.com