vdpa/mlx5: Parallelize device resume

vdpa/mlx5: Parallelize device resume

Currently device resume works on vqs serially. Building up on previous
changes that converted vq operations to the async api, this patch
parallelizes the device resume.

For 1 vDPA device x 32 VQs (16 VQPs) attached to a large VM (256 GB RAM,
32 CPUs x 2 threads per core), the device resume time is reduced from
~16 ms to ~4.5 ms.

Signed-off-by: Dragos Tatulea <dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20240816090159.1967650-8-dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Lei Yang <leiyang@redhat.com>