bcachefs: Add a counter for btree_trans restarts

bcachefs: Add a counter for btree_trans restarts

This will help us improve nested transactions - we need to add
assertions that whenever an inner transaction handles a restart, it
still returns -EINTR to the outer transaction.

This also adds nested_lockrestart_do() and nested_commit_do() which use
the new counters to correctly return -EINTR when the transaction was
restarted.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>