bcachefs: RESERVE_stripe

bcachefs: RESERVE_stripe

Rework stripe creation path - new algorithm for deciding when to create
new stripes or reuse existing stripes.

We add a new allocation watermark, RESERVE_stripe, above RESERVE_none.
Then we always try to create a new stripe by doing RESERVE_stripe
allocations; if this fails, we reuse an existing stripe and allocate
buckets for it with the reserve watermark for the given write
(RESERVE_none or RESERVE_movinggc).

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>