RDMA/rtrs-srv: Don't guard the whole __alloc_srv with srv_mutex

RDMA/rtrs-srv: Don't guard the whole __alloc_srv with srv_mutex

The purpose of srv_mutex is to protect srv_list as in put_srv, so no need
to hold it when allocate memory for srv since it could be time consuming.

Otherwise if one machine has limited memory, rsrv_close_work could be
blocked for a longer time due to the mutex is held by get_or_create_srv
since it can't get memory in time.

  INFO: task kworker/1:1:27478 blocked for more than 120 seconds.
        Tainted: G           O    4.14.171-1-storage #4.14.171-1.3~deb9
  "echo 0 > /proc/sys/kernel/hung_task_timeout_secs" disables this message.
  kworker/1:1     D    0 27478      2 0x80000000
  Workqueue: rtrs_server_wq rtrs_srv_close_work [rtrs_server]
  Call Trace:
   ? __schedule+0x38c/0x7e0
   schedule+0x32/0x80
   schedule_preempt_disabled+0xa/0x10
   __mutex_lock.isra.2+0x25e/0x4d0
   ? put_srv+0x44/0x100 [rtrs_server]
   put_srv+0x44/0x100 [rtrs_server]
   rtrs_srv_close_work+0x16c/0x280 [rtrs_server]
   process_one_work+0x1c5/0x3c0
   worker_thread+0x47/0x3e0
   kthread+0xfc/0x130
   ? trace_event_raw_event_workqueue_execute_start+0xa0/0xa0
   ? kthread_create_on_node+0x70/0x70
   ret_from_fork+0x1f/0x30

Let's move all the logics from __find_srv_and_get and __alloc_srv to
get_or_create_srv, and remove the two functions. Then it should be safe
for multiple processes to access the same srv since it is protected with
srv_mutex.

And since we don't want to allocate chunks with srv_mutex held, let's
check the srv->refcount after get srv because the chunks could not be
allocated yet.

Fixes: 9cb837480424 ("RDMA/rtrs: server: main functionality")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20201023074353.21946-6-jinpu.wang@cloud.ionos.com
Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <guoqing.jiang@cloud.ionos.com>
Signed-off-by: Jack Wang <jinpu.wang@cloud.ionos.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>