net/mlx5: HWS, Decouple matcher RX and TX sizes

net/mlx5: HWS, Decouple matcher RX and TX sizes

Kernel HWS only uses FDB tables and, as such, creates two lower level
containers (RTCs) for each matcher: one for RX and one for TX. Allow
these RTCs to differ in size by converting the size part of the matcher
attribute to a two element array.

Signed-off-by: Vlad Dogaru <vdogaru@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Yevgeny Kliteynik <kliteyn@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250703185431.445571-7-mbloch@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>