vxlan: Always refresh FDB 'updated' time when learning is enabled

vxlan: Always refresh FDB 'updated' time when learning is enabled

Currently, when learning is enabled and a packet is received from the
expected remote, the 'updated' field of the FDB entry is not refreshed.
This will become a problem when we switch the VXLAN driver to age out
entries based on the 'updated' field.

Solve this by always refreshing an FDB entry when we receive a packet
with a matching source MAC address, regardless if it was received via
the expected remote or not as it indicates the host is alive. This is
consistent with the bridge driver's FDB.

Reviewed-by: Petr Machata <petrm@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <razor@blackwall.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250204145549.1216254-4-idosch@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>