bcachefs: Make more btree_paths available

bcachefs: Make more btree_paths available

 - Don't decrease BTREE_ITER_MAX when building with CONFIG_LOCKDEP
   anymore. The lockdep table sizes are configurable now, we don't need
   this anymore.
 - btree_trans_too_many_iters() is less conservative now. Previously it
   was causing a transaction restart if we had used more than
   BTREE_ITER_MAX / 2 paths, change this to BTREE_ITER_MAX - 8.

This helps with excessive transaction restarts/livelocks in the bucket
allocator path.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>