bpf: expose bpf_{g,s}etsockopt to lsm cgroup

bpf: expose bpf_{g,s}etsockopt to lsm cgroup

I don't see how to make it nice without introducing btf id lists
for the hooks where these helpers are allowed. Some LSM hooks
work on the locked sockets, some are triggering early and
don't grab any locks, so have two lists for now:

1. LSM hooks which trigger under socket lock - minority of the hooks,
   but ideal case for us, we can expose existing BTF-based helpers
2. LSM hooks which trigger without socket lock, but they trigger
   early in the socket creation path where it should be safe to
   do setsockopt without any locks
3. The rest are prohibited. I'm thinking that this use-case might
   be a good gateway to sleeping lsm cgroup hooks in the future.
   We can either expose lock/unlock operations (and add tracking
   to the verifier) or have another set of bpf_setsockopt
   wrapper that grab the locks and might sleep.

Reviewed-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220628174314.1216643-7-sdf@google.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>