bpf, sockmap: Fix panic when calling skb_linearize

bpf, sockmap: Fix panic when calling skb_linearize

The panic can be reproduced by executing the command:
./bench sockmap -c 2 -p 1 -a --rx-verdict-ingress --rx-strp 100000

Then a kernel panic was captured:
'''
[  657.460555] kernel BUG at net/core/skbuff.c:2178!
[  657.462680] Tainted: [W]=WARN
[  657.463287] Workqueue: events sk_psock_backlog
...
[  657.469610]  <TASK>
[  657.469738]  ? die+0x36/0x90
[  657.469916]  ? do_trap+0x1d0/0x270
[  657.470118]  ? pskb_expand_head+0x612/0xf40
[  657.470376]  ? pskb_expand_head+0x612/0xf40
[  657.470620]  ? do_error_trap+0xa3/0x170
[  657.470846]  ? pskb_expand_head+0x612/0xf40
[  657.471092]  ? handle_invalid_op+0x2c/0x40
[  657.471335]  ? pskb_expand_head+0x612/0xf40
[  657.471579]  ? exc_invalid_op+0x2d/0x40
[  657.471805]  ? asm_exc_invalid_op+0x1a/0x20
[  657.472052]  ? pskb_expand_head+0xd1/0xf40
[  657.472292]  ? pskb_expand_head+0x612/0xf40
[  657.472540]  ? lock_acquire+0x18f/0x4e0
[  657.472766]  ? find_held_lock+0x2d/0x110
[  657.472999]  ? __pfx_pskb_expand_head+0x10/0x10
[  657.473263]  ? __kmalloc_cache_noprof+0x5b/0x470
[  657.473537]  ? __pfx___lock_release.isra.0+0x10/0x10
[  657.473826]  __pskb_pull_tail+0xfd/0x1d20
[  657.474062]  ? __kasan_slab_alloc+0x4e/0x90
[  657.474707]  sk_psock_skb_ingress_enqueue+0x3bf/0x510
[  657.475392]  ? __kasan_kmalloc+0xaa/0xb0
[  657.476010]  sk_psock_backlog+0x5cf/0xd70
[  657.476637]  process_one_work+0x858/0x1a20
'''

The panic originates from the assertion BUG_ON(skb_shared(skb)) in
skb_linearize(). A previous commit(see Fixes tag) introduced skb_get()
to avoid race conditions between skb operations in the backlog and skb
release in the recvmsg path. However, this caused the panic to always
occur when skb_linearize is executed.

The "--rx-strp 100000" parameter forces the RX path to use the strparser
module which aggregates data until it reaches 100KB before calling sockmap
logic. The 100KB payload exceeds MAX_MSG_FRAGS, triggering skb_linearize.

To fix this issue, just move skb_get into sk_psock_skb_ingress_enqueue.

'''
sk_psock_backlog:
    sk_psock_handle_skb
       skb_get(skb) <== we move it into 'sk_psock_skb_ingress_enqueue'
       sk_psock_skb_ingress____________
                                       ↓
                                       |
                                       | → sk_psock_skb_ingress_self
                                       |      sk_psock_skb_ingress_enqueue
sk_psock_verdict_apply_________________↑          skb_linearize
'''

Note that for verdict_apply path, the skb_get operation is unnecessary so
we add 'take_ref' param to control it's behavior.

Fixes: a454d84ee20b ("bpf, sockmap: Fix skb refcnt race after locking changes")
Signed-off-by: Jiayuan Chen <jiayuan.chen@linux.dev>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250407142234.47591-4-jiayuan.chen@linux.dev
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>