vfio: Provide better generic support for open/release vfio_device_ops

vfio: Provide better generic support for open/release vfio_device_ops

Currently the driver ops have an open/release pair that is called once
each time a device FD is opened or closed. Add an additional set of
open/close_device() ops which are called when the device FD is opened for
the first time and closed for the last time.

An analysis shows that all of the drivers require this semantic. Some are
open coding it as part of their reflck implementation, and some are just
buggy and miss it completely.

To retain the current semantics PCI and FSL depend on, introduce the idea
of a "device set" which is a grouping of vfio_device's that share the same
lock around opening.

The device set is established by providing a 'set_id' pointer. All
vfio_device's that provide the same pointer will be joined to the same
singleton memory and lock across the whole set. This effectively replaces
the oddly named reflck.

After conversion the set_id will be sourced from:
 - A struct device from a fsl_mc_device (fsl)
 - A struct pci_slot (pci)
 - A struct pci_bus (pci)
 - The struct vfio_device (everything)

The design ensures that the above pointers are live as long as the
vfio_device is registered, so they form reliable unique keys to group
vfio_devices into sets.

This implementation uses xarray instead of searching through the driver
core structures, which simplifies the somewhat tricky locking in this
area.

Following patches convert all the drivers.

Signed-off-by: Yishai Hadas <yishaih@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Cornelia Huck <cohuck@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/4-v4-9ea22c5e6afb+1adf-vfio_reflck_jgg@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>