md/raid1: check bitmap before behind write

md/raid1: check bitmap before behind write

behind write rely on bitmap, because the number of IO are recorded in
bitmap->behind_writes, and callers rely on bitmap_wait_behind_writes()
to wait for IO to be done.

However, currently callers doesn't check if bitmap is enabeld before
calling into behind methods. Hence if behind write start without bitmap,
readers will not wait for slow write IO to be done and old data can be
read in some corner cases.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-raid/20250707012711.376844-10-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com
Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Xiao Ni <xni@redhat.com>