perf intel-tpebs: Don't close record on read

perf intel-tpebs: Don't close record on read

Factor sending record control fd code into its own function.

Rather than killing the record process send it a ping when reading.

Timeouts were witnessed if done too frequently, so only ping for the
first tpebs events.

Don't kill the record command send it a stop command.

As close isn't reliably called also close on evsel__exit.

Add extra checks on the record being terminated to avoid warnings.

Adjust the locking as needed and incorporate extra -Wthread-safety
checks.

Check to do six 500ms poll timeouts when sending commands, rather than
the larger 3000ms, to allow the record process terminating to be better
witnessed.

Reviewed-by: Kan Liang <kan.liang@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Tested-by: Weilin Wang <weilin.wang@intel.com>
Acked-by: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>
Cc: Adrian Hunter <adrian.hunter@intel.com>
Cc: Alexander Shishkin <alexander.shishkin@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Alexandre Torgue <alexandre.torgue@foss.st.com>
Cc: Andreas Färber <afaerber@suse.de>
Cc: Caleb Biggers <caleb.biggers@intel.com>
Cc: Ingo Molnar <mingo@redhat.com>
Cc: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Cc: Manivannan Sadhasivam <manivannan.sadhasivam@linaro.org>
Cc: Mark Rutland <mark.rutland@arm.com>
Cc: Maxime Coquelin <mcoquelin.stm32@gmail.com>
Cc: Perry Taylor <perry.taylor@intel.com>
Cc: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Cc: Thomas Falcon <thomas.falcon@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250414174134.3095492-13-irogers@google.com
Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>