IB/mad: Add state machine to MAD layer

IB/mad: Add state machine to MAD layer

Replace the use of refcount, timeout and status with a 'state'
field to track the status of MADs send work requests (WRs).
The state machine better represents the stages in the MAD lifecycle,
specifically indicating whether the MAD is waiting for a completion,
waiting for a response, was canceld or is done.

The existing refcount only takes two values:
1 : MAD is waiting either for completion or for response.
2 : MAD is waiting for both response and completion. Also when a
     response was received before a completion notification.
The status field represents if the MAD was canceled at some point
in the flow.
The timeout is used to represent if a response was received.

The current state transitions are not clearly visible, and developers
needs to infer the state from the refcount's, timeout's or status's
value, which is error-prone and difficult to follow.

Thus, replace with a state machine as the following:
- 'IB_MAD_STATE_INIT': MAD is in the making and is not yet in any list
- 'IB_MAD_STATE_SEND_START': MAD was sent to the QP and is waiting for
   completion notification in send list
- 'IB_MAD_STATE_WAIT_RESP': MAD send completed successfully, waiting for
  a response in wait list
- 'IB_MAD_STATE_EARLY_RESP': Response came early, before send
   completion notification, MAD is in the send list
- 'IB_MAD_STATE_CANCELED': MAD was canceled while in send or wait list
- 'IB_MAD_STATE_DONE': MAD processing completed, MAD is in no list

Adding the state machine also make it possible to remove the double
call for ib_mad_complete_send_wr in case of an early response and the
use of a done list in case of a regular response.

While at it, define a helper to clear error MADs which will handle
freeing MADs that timed out or have been cancelled.

Signed-off-by: Or Har-Toov <ohartoov@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Vlad Dumitrescu <vdumitrescu@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/48e6ae8689dc7bb8b4ba6e5ec562e1b018db88a8.1751278420.git.leon@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>