bcachefs: Add rw to .key_invalid()

bcachefs: Add rw to .key_invalid()

This adds a new parameter to .key_invalid() methods for whether the key
is being read or written; the idea being that methods can do more
aggressive checks when a key is newly created and being written, when we
wouldn't want to delete the key because of those checks.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>